Northern California Wedding Planner | Why Planning Experience Matters

Planning in general isn’t difficult - heck it’s pretty fun! With so many tools and resources online at your fingertips it might seem like a no-brainer to jump in and plan this wedding bash on your own, but today we are talking about planning vs experience.

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What are the biggest wedding day-bloopers, you know those hiccups that cause things to run behind or a vendor doesn’t show - what happens when things don’t go to plan? Communication can make or break even the best plan if details aren’t communicated or if there is an assumption about what a vendor will provide.

What do you need in a moment of what feels like stress or chaos? Experience. Experience is what makes the difference because from our perspective after 9 years of planning weddings - we can apply years of back-up plans, weather contingency plans, and lot of amazing folks on speed dial just in case.

Honestly, it isn’t often that we are in situations where we would even need to make a call last minute but part of the value that we bring is the reassurance for our clients that we would make every last call until everything was back on track to ensure their day is beautiful. We’ll save the day months ahead of time, when we can look at your bar list or vendor list, timeline and floor-plan to double check that everything is in order.

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When new potential clients meet with us, they may have in their mind that they are only in need of a day-of-coordinator. This is a great time for us to explain what our Wedding Management package is all about because we simply don’t believe that day-of-coordination is a thing. We know that it takes so much more of an in-depth understanding of the moving parts of the day, from the decor items & placement, to the announcements and song choices down to the qty of the cups for the bar and so much more. Without that, we can’t expect to be able to answer the questions that come up while the couple is getting ready and we certainly aren’t going to call the bride to ask about bar cups on her wedding day. See where we are going with this?

Ask any planner about some of the hats that we wear on a typical wedding, and if you could only see some of the interesting items that we keep in our wedding bags - because we want to be prepared!

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If you are a resourceful couple and feel strongly about it there are several great tasks that you can assign to your friends, family or wedding party members. Our advice is to choose tasks that are not time-sensitive and that can be done ahead of time. For instance if you would like to have your aunt alphabetize your escort cards the week before the wedding - yes! If you are planning on having your maid of honor make floral arrangements the day of the wedding - no.

So if you are looking for that reassurance of knowing that you have a designated team to focus on your wedding and know the details inside & out - we are here for you because we simply wouldn’t have it any other way! For more information about our Wedding Management service - please check out our services page for more details!

~ Happy Planning~
XOXO Veronica

Northern California Wedding Planner | The Good Stuff

In the thick of wedding season, it could be easy to get lost in the hustle and bustle of email inboxes, layouts, to-do lists and budgets .. but the special moments when couples get a little watery in the eyes thinking of their ceremony details or when they see their engagement photos come back; that’s the good stuff!

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You see, it is so personal and special to be a part of this experience with our couples. We are there for the big decisions down to the smallest of the details, the phone calls and texts with advice and support through every planning milestone. Even for the couples who book with us a few months out before their wedding after they have made the majority of the decisions, realize the benefit to having someone to advocate on their behalf while bringing the details together in the final weeks.

We find ourselves telling our couples how fast the wedding day truly will fly by and we want to help them enjoy every moment of it. So the more we can do to take your focus off of the “stuff” and put it back on your experience, and being present with your fiance, friends & family - that’s what matters most.

When we meet with our couples and potential clients we will be able to help you prioritize the details that will actually impact your day and streamline the rest. Our goal is to also make sure that all of the event partners who are a part of your day (photographer, videographer, hair & make-up, transportation, florist, caterer, DJ and venue for example) are all set up for success as well. This helps to ensure that everything runs smoothly and that you know the details are handled!

Sometimes the biggest impact of all, is the ability for the parents of the couple and their immediate family to be able to relax and know that everything is in place for the big day which allows them to be able to relax and enjoy as well. This sweet note below is from a bride’s mom at a recent wedding and it touched our hearts:

“Dear Veronica, Thank you so much for all of your guidance & help to make Jade & Mark’s wedding perfect for them! You were the super glue that held it all together. Also, holding my peace of mind in check with your amazing timeline. Anxiety comes from fear of the unknown. When we organize our plans & see it in writing, it helps so much. You came into our lives quickly, but made a long lasting impression. So grateful you helped Jade navigate the dog situation and went above & beyond in delivering our leftovers to our home. The 530 Bride is amazing!”

— Julie A.

So no matter how close you are to your wedding date we hope you will consider having a wedding planner or wedding management/coordination team support you. If we are booked, we are always happy to provide recommendations of local and reputable planners who will do an amazing job for you.

~ Happy Planning!